Moving from an ego guided life to a soul guided life involves two steps. First, adopt a macro, rather than micro, perspective. You are a child of God, a spirit on a spiritual mission. You contracted to be here and experience having a mind and a body. Every experience you have is being directed by your soul to promote spiritual growth. The more difficult your journey the more potential you have for rapid growth. The sooner you move your IRP to your soul and listen to its guidance the sooner your fears will decrease and peace will come.
Second, decide to look within your soul for guidance, security, love and worth rather than the world and others. Your soul is directly connected to God while your friends and family suffer from the same spiritual void as you. Does it make sense to depend on them for that which they cannot provide for themselves? You need the power of God to direct your life’s path. God’s energy is called love. It is the power of acceptance and healing. When the basis of your decisions comes from this energy source you will feel your heart sing.